when I was younger, I decided I wouldn't worry about who I would marry or when I would get married.
one reason is because I knew in my heart that I would one day be married. I didn't know when or to whom, but I believed that I would.
because I believed I would be married, I chose not to waste my precious years as a single person worrying about marriage.
I am REALLY glad I didn't worry about it. In hindsight, it would have been a complete waste of time.
but, I didn't apply this type of thinking to every area of my life. I did spend a lot of years worrying about my job, my finances, housing, and so on.
I wish I had decided not to worry about anything, not only marriage, in my 20s.
But starting today is better than not having started at all so that's what I want to commit to doing moving forward. Not. worrying.
(Not never worrying, but choosing not to worry if I have the choice.)
Love to you all on this journey.
All of us at speak.